Lesbian, bi and queerLesbian dating: sincere women, real chemistry
On Lesbian Dating, you meet women who love women, close to home or further away. A friendship, a first drink or a lasting relationship: everyone shows what she's looking for, with respect and without judgment.
Free · 18+ · Same account on the website and in the app
- Between women, for real
- Profiles verified by selfie
- Your profile invisible outside the app
One profile at a time, and your full attention
In the Discover tab, profiles appear one by one, full size: photos, bio, interests. Take your time to look, then decide with a swipe or a tap.
- RewindSwiped too fast? Go back to the previous profile.
- PassSwipe left: the next profile comes up, and nobody knows.
- Super likeReally into her? She'll know you noticed her.
- LikeSwipe right: if it's mutual, it's a match and the chat opens.
- MessageWrite to her without waiting for a match: your message goes straight to her inbox.
A space between women, for all women
Lesbian Dating is for women who love women: lesbian, bi, pan, queer, questioning, trans women and non-binary people. Choose how you define yourself, who you want to meet, and what you're really looking for.
I am
- Female
- Transgender Woman
- Transfeminine
- Non-Binary (Feminine)
- Butch
- Femme
- Other
You can look for one or several of these profiles.
I'm looking for
- ♥️ Serious Relationship
- 🌱 Growing Relationship
- 💬 Chat & Connect
- 🌍 Meet New People
- 🤎 Go With the Flow
No men, no couples looking for a "third": report any profile that lies about who they are in two taps, and the moderation team will review it.
What makes you tick
From queer nights to specialty coffee, from climbing to crochet: pick your interests from the app's list. They show on your profile and give an instant topic for the first message.
Going out
- 🕺 Lesbian Bars / Queer Nights
- 🥂 Brunch & Mimosa Sundays
- 🍹 Cocktail Lounges / Mixology
- 🎧 Queer Parties / Underground Clubs
- 🔥 Bonfires & Beach Gatherings
Queer culture
- 🎬 Sapphic Cinema & LGBTQ+ Series
- 🎸 Queer Music & Indie Artists (Girl in Red, Fletcher...)
- 💅 Pop Icons (Chappell Roan, Billie Eilish, Hayley Kiyoko...)
- 👑 Drag Shows / Drag King Culture
- 📖 Queer Literature & Poetry Slams
Activism
- 🏳️🌈 Pride Festivals & Parades
- 📢 Feminismus & LGBTQ+ Activism
- 📚 Sapphic History & Queer Studies
- ❤️ Volunteering for Queer & Women Charities
- 🤝 Safe Spaces & Community Centers
Creativity and style
- ✍️ Creative Writing / Zine Making
- 🧶 Crochet / Knitting & Crafts
- 📷 Photography & Visual Arts
- 🧥 Thrifting / Vintage & Flannel Style
- 🥾 Doc Martens & Alt Fashion
Outdoors
- 🥾 Hiking / Wilderness Exploring
- 🧗♂️ Bouldering / Rock Climbing
- 🛹 Skateboarding / Roller Skating
- ⚽ Queer Sports Leagues (Soccer, Softball)
- 🧘♀️ Yoga & Mindfulness
Cozy life
- 🐱 Cat Mom / Feline Lover
- 🪴 Plant Mom / Propagation & Urban Jungle
- ☕ Specialty Coffee / Matcha Addict
- 🍳 Baking / Sourdough & Pastries
- 🔮 Astrology & Birth Charts
Your visibility, your choice
Not every woman is at the same point in her coming out, and that's your right. On Lesbian Dating, you decide what you show, and to whom.
- Invisible outside the appYour profile never appears on the website's public pages or in search engines: only signed-in members can see it.
- Contact details never shownYour email address and phone number are never shown to other members.
- Incognito modeWith Premium, browse profiles without being seen.
- Block and hideA profile makes you uncomfortable? Block or hide it in two taps: it won't show up again.
Fake profiles: spot them in a flash
Women-only apps sometimes attract people who have no business being there: men hiding behind a woman's photo, couples hunting for a "unicorn", scammers. A few simple habits are enough to keep them away.
- A video call firstIt confirms the person is the one in the photos. Someone who always refuses rarely has a good reason.
- The blue badgeIt shows a selfie was compared to the photos. You can choose to see verified profiles only.
- Never send moneyNo money, gift card or SMS code to someone you met online, whatever her story.
- Report, blockIn two taps, at the slightest doubt. The moderation team reviews every report.
A real date, or drinks between friends?
Between women, the line can be blurry. Just say it when you invite her, pick a place where you both feel comfortable, and talk about what matters to each of you, including visibility.
In 7 languages, just like the app
From Paris to Madrid, Lisbon to Berlin, Rome to Bangkok: the Lesbian Dating website and app speak your language, and every profile shows the languages the person speaks.
- Français
- English
- Español
- Português
- Deutsch
- Italiano
- ไทย
The app's features
The app's features, also available on the website with the same account.
Like, match, chat
If you both like each other, the conversation opens for free, with no message limit.
Clear intentions
Serious relationship, getting to know each other, meeting new people: everyone's goal shows on her profile.
The Connections tab
Your matches and the women who liked your profile in one place, with a badge as soon as there's something new.
Verified profile
A selfie copying a gesture is all it takes: the blue badge reassures other members.
Three steps to get started
- 1
Create your profile
Your photos, your interests and what you're looking for: a few minutes, on the website or in the app.
- 2
Get it verified
The blue badge shows you really are the woman in your photos. Members pay close attention to it.
- 3
Get to know each other
As soon as the interest is mutual, the conversation opens. Suggest a drink when you're both ready.
One account, on the website and in the app
Your matches and conversations follow you: on your computer, then on your phone with the Lesbian Dating app.
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Frequently asked questions
Who is Lesbian Dating for?
For women who love women: lesbian, bi, pan, queer or questioning, trans women and non-binary people, aged 18 and over. Choose how you define yourself from the app's genders (including butch and femme), and say what you're looking for: serious relationship, getting to know each other, friendship, meeting new people.
What do you do about fake profiles?
Photos are checked automatically (photos found elsewhere online are rejected), profiles can be verified by selfie and the moderation team reviews every report, especially men or couples posing as a single woman. Make a video call before meeting, and never send money or an intimate photo in which you can be recognized.
Can I stay discreet?
Yes. Your profile is only visible to signed-in members, never to search engines, and your contact details are never shown. Choose your photos freely, use Premium's incognito mode to browse without being seen, and block or hide a profile at any time.
Is Lesbian Dating free?
Yes, for the essentials: sign-up, profile, likes and unlimited chat with each of your matches. Diamonds and the Premium subscription are optional.
Can I look for several profiles at once?
Yes. In your match preferences, select one or several genders (female, transgender woman, transfeminine, non-binary, butch, femme, other), then set the age range and search distance.
Which languages is the website available in?
In French, English, Spanish, Portuguese, German, Italian and Thai, just like the app. Switch language at any time from the language menu.